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TIPS ON HOW TO BE POPULAR :))
Tuesday, August 26, 2008 | Time: 5:28 AM | 0 comments







1.Change is Good. remember who you are in the making of this change.Get used to the idea that you are dynamic and constantly changing. People say "don't change and just be yourself" and this is true, but be your best self. Take it one step at a time, and build your confidence. Popular people are social and very busy.
2.Listen more than you talk. People will want to be around someone who flatters their ego more than a chatterbox, who stalks them.You can't listen with your mouth open. Ask them questions, but not enough to sound like a stalker. People love a person who takes the time to find more about them. I mean,what's not to like about a person who likes you?
3.Find the the most popular trio of the school and get to be close friends with them. In this trio should include the most popular girl in school. Then start your own trio with 3 other girls who are potentially popular while hanging out with your old trio. From that,you have the potential to become the most popular girl in school,which means you should start living up to your potential.
4.Don't Be Stupid, Be Empathetic. They know when someone needs a friend, a compliment, a hug, and exactly how the other person is feeling. They start casual conversations. It's okay to be shy and have nerdy tendencies, but if you want to be popular, you have to smile, start conversations, and relate to people at their own level. That means talk about what the other person is interested in. Don't get used to the idea that you are shy or whatever, get used to the idea that you are constantly changing, and that you are developing your social skills to the point where you could relate to all people. You have the "right" to change and grow.
5.Always keep in mind the definition of popular: many people consider you a friend/ admire you Have you ever noticed that people who are friends with total creeps, and all sorts of unusual people are generally liked more, and more sought after, than "popular" kids? This is because they have an eclectic side, and judge on more than appearances. People are much less intimidated by someone who is friends with a hunchback, and a butch lesbian than a chick who spends seventy dollars on pants, and puts anyone less lovely than themselves down. They are also totally intrigued by that mysterious and diverse clan you have created. Eventually the exclusive crew you were so afraid of will reveal to you that they are humans too, and let you in, just make sure that is not your sole aim. (And if they don't let you into their group, don't let it bother you. If they're that close-minded, they're probably part of the seventy dollar pants crowd.)
6.Be confident., Stop thinking you are ugly or that you aren't cool enough. Everyone is either beautiful on the inside, outside, or both. Be comfortable with that! Think of your qualities for a while. You're cool through them. Just believe in yourself and let people meet you. If you don't feel it, fake it. Think that you are cool and pretty, because once you start believing it, others do, too, but don't be conceited. Also, to be confident wake up every morning and tell yourself how pretty you are. It may sound conceited but it is a great way to start the day. Nobody will believe your beautiful if you don't.
7.Take care of yourself. This doesn’t mean you have to starve your body.. Actually, starving yourself makes you lose less weight than you would if you did eat and it messes up your metabolism. Rather, try to get into shape. Eating healthy and exercising everyday is important and effective; so is staying clean with good hygiene. Drinking plenty of water can help your skin look great and improve your overall health. If you get to the point where you feel good about your body and the great shape you keep it in, others will see that.
8.Get your own clothes sense lined out. It’s no secret that style can get you far in the girl world. You can shop at the popular stores and if you can afford it, try to buy designer clothes and classic accessories (don't buy cheap knockoffs and try to pass them off as real). However, you can be very fashionable by creating outfits from stores such as Abercrombie, Hollister, American Eagle, Garage, Lululemon, H&M and Aeropostale. Also stores like Old Navy have some very fashionable clothes for less money. Forever 21 has some nice selections as well. Check out fashion magazines, and study how outfits are made, and how they turn fashionable and gorgeous.It’s also great to develop your own unique style, adding individual touches that are really you, instead of copying everybody else. Be unique. Accessories like earrings, belts, bags, etc. can do wonders.(You can get some really unique pieces from H&M and Forever 21.) Don't wear clothes that make you feel uncomfortable-you won't pull it off.
9.Take your hair for a ride. While not essential, a change to your hair could be just the wake-up call you need to feel confident and get out there as a popular girl. As with everything else, make sure your hair is well-groomed and taken care of as often as possible. Shower every day, wash your hair at least 3-4 times a week, and condition (from the middle of the hair down). Get a comb and make it silky by brushing it! The smaller the comb the less knots! Also, spend extra time on your hair in the morning. Nobody wants a hat day!
10.Apply makeup carefully if you like putting on makeup. You don't really need makeup but putting it on could make a big boost in your confidence. While most popular girls wear makeup, it’s important to be tasteful about it. You really want people to think you're not wearing any makeup at all. Makeup can help you to emphasize things you like about your appearance, and draw attention away from things you don’t. Be sure to blend your makeup so it will not stand out and that way it will look natural. Concealer, mascara, lip gloss, and maybe some eyeshadow or liner, are all you need. Carry these things around with you in a cute bag for touch-ups. However powder and mascara don't need to be touched up because you can carry blotter paper with you to take care of oil. You should always remember that there are quite a few of popular girls who wear no makeup, and are still gorgeous. Don't wear garish or over done makeup-it screams desperate.
11.Be outgoing. Being shy won’t win you any new friends. You’re going to have to get out there and talk to people. You cannot be afraid to talk to others. Whether it’s chatting up to popular girls in class or at lunch, getting yourself invited to the hottest parties, getting the best grade on tests or winning an athletic contest, make your name known. Everybody needs to know who you are. Like people and show it. Be friendly and interested in people, and many of them will like you back. You don't win popularity by hiding in the corner or expecting people to approach you and suddenly appreciate you for the true gem you are. If you're shy, make friends with really outgoing people. They will encourage you to talk to other people, and soon it will be easy for you. Make sure to talk about things that other people are interested in. People are really passionate about talking about their interests.(Be yourself)
12.Get involved. Popular girls are usually well-rounded, and comfortable in almost every sphere of the school. Join a sports team or club. This will help you to meet many new people and establish you in the school. Be sure to do something you actually like, as people can tell when you’re faking. No one likes someone who does a sport or club just to be popular. Try to do an after school activity every day if possible. Come up with clever ideas for decorating dances or running the school newspaper. Let people know the real you!
13.Don't try too hard. Don't think that if you do a certain thing, they will like you. You must try some of their ideas, and their tips. Make a list of goals for youself to do. If you truly want to get rid of any rep. than work at it. Set a goal, work hard and people will notice.
14.Know what your body language is telling people. For instance, when you cross your arms your body language can give the impression, "Don't bug me." Another example is slouching - a sign that says, "I don't feel I'm very important." Positive body language is all about how you feel about yourself and how you make others feel. The most popular people in school or at a party usually know how to make everyone else feel good by using plenty of positives gestures like nods, eye contact and, most important of all, a sparkling, warm smile. People think you aren't happy without a smile.
15.Seek opportunities to socialize. Even if it's just walking from one class to another, find someone that has the same schedule as you do so that you can walk and talk. If you really feel like doing something will benefit you, ask a friend to do it with you.

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